tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21444271.post8403411732668012858..comments2023-11-03T22:34:56.656+09:00Comments on I'm no Picasso: A preview of things to come?I'm no Picassohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06516337555349888808noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21444271.post-29410738864777939502011-07-01T12:20:32.022+09:002011-07-01T12:20:32.022+09:00I've also heard a lot of, "Don't take...I've also heard a lot of, "Don't take a shower after you get a vaccination." as well.3gyupsalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05221321128938672113noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21444271.post-6806268971460087642011-06-30T15:40:30.660+09:002011-06-30T15:40:30.660+09:00The shower after birth question was likely due to ...The shower after birth question was likely due to the traditional belief (<a href="http://www.asiafinest.com/forum/index.php?showtopic=24409" rel="nofollow">throughout Asia, apparently</a>)that women shouldn't bathe for a month after giving birth. One imagines this came from the days when there were no warm baths (and when, well, people didn't really bathe to begin with).matthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10296009437690229938noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21444271.post-90271256964853076112011-06-29T10:34:10.060+09:002011-06-29T10:34:10.060+09:00Ajummas are a little bit obsessed with the differe...Ajummas are a little bit obsessed with the differences between the birthing process in Korea and the rest of the world, if you ask me. Some of the most bizarre things I've ever heard otherwise completely rational women say have centered around that subject. I don't really like talking about giving birth in general, and have never done it, so I mostly just try to smile while I listen to how Korean women's bodies are completely different from every other kind of female body.I'm no Picassohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06516337555349888808noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21444271.post-3727999854378343692011-06-29T10:25:55.068+09:002011-06-29T10:25:55.068+09:00I understand. I've had my share of strange co...I understand. I've had my share of strange conversations with coworkers too. My favorite was a co-teacher asking me if American women took showers after they gave birth. I still don't know the answer to that one.3gyupsalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05221321128938672113noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21444271.post-58909155530917948152011-06-29T04:07:24.665+09:002011-06-29T04:07:24.665+09:00Skeptigirl - Strange. I also use google translate ...Skeptigirl - Strange. I also use google translate and you caused me to come across one of the nitpicks google translate has. I included the question marks and got what Rocco wrote. So I tried it without the question mark and got your translation. Seems like punctuation really makes a difference for the translation of Korean into English (and perhaps other) languages. Cool.Rachaelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00817628851661220979noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21444271.post-62620839415345734432011-06-29T00:30:43.683+09:002011-06-29T00:30:43.683+09:003gyupsal -- I think the thing that bothered me was...3gyupsal -- I think the thing that bothered me was 1. it was right on the heels of that other question, was still bizarre and 2. she didn't just ask, like any normal person would, what does your boyfriend do? In the same way that the first question wasn't, "Is teaching difficult?", but, "Isn't teaching difficult for you?" Which you could chalk up to crappy English if you wanted to be really generous, but even in the case of a direct translation, the Korean has the same implication. <br /><br />Sonia -- No, my male coworkers are the same way. They were the ones who busted me in the first place. The conversation went like this (in their simplified for the idiot Korean): "You have a boyfriend now right?"/"Uh...."/"You do have a boyfriend now."/"Uh...."/"Korean?"/*nods*/*all nod* <br /><br />끝<br /><br />Which I find to be preferable, actually. <br /><br />Skeptigirl -- What Rocco said.I'm no Picassohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06516337555349888808noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21444271.post-16651286366714503202011-06-29T00:15:05.401+09:002011-06-29T00:15:05.401+09:00"한국 남자 좋지?" in 쏘냐's context roughly ..."한국 남자 좋지?" in 쏘냐's context roughly translates to "Korean men are good, right?" It's rhetorical - asserts that Korean men are good, and expects no answers.<br /><br />It can also be a close-ended question that asks whether you like men, but the context makes this very unlikely.Roccohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07185581635547509199noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21444271.post-17485483297912627442011-06-28T20:41:03.817+09:002011-06-28T20:41:03.817+09:00May I ask what "한국 남자 좋지??" means. I goo...May I ask what "한국 남자 좋지??" means. I google translated it and got confused mostly because it is translated slightly differently into Finnish and English. In English it is like "poor guy korea" in Finnish it is the slightly more grammatical "bad friend in Korea" but still all confused. <br /><br />I really enjoy the blog but not from a living in Korea point of view as you can see since my Korean language skills do not go beyond counting to five and other things I learned in taekwondo class as a teenager.Skeptigirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09114437797095740146noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21444271.post-3674763395610869582011-06-28T19:12:46.769+09:002011-06-28T19:12:46.769+09:00Hahaha. My Korean coworkers rarely talk to me outs...Hahaha. My Korean coworkers rarely talk to me outside of class-related things. I suspect this is due to the odd set-up of my school. It's owned by a Korean man and his American wife, who happens to be one of my best friends. I suspect they figure having informal chats with me would be similar to having an informal chat with their boss...Annie Nimityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09711448646226959206noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21444271.post-29623159449432675412011-06-28T18:41:30.884+09:002011-06-28T18:41:30.884+09:00It isn't abnormal for Korean men to be well in...It isn't abnormal for Korean men to be well into their thirties and still be college students. You have the army to consider, graduate school, and a lot of them like to travel for a year or so after they get back from the army. I meet a lot of students that I taught back in 2005 who still haven't graduated yet.3gyupsalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05221321128938672113noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21444271.post-73201295515692679962011-06-28T14:06:36.204+09:002011-06-28T14:06:36.204+09:00I wonder a bit if I'm missing out on this beca...I wonder a bit if I'm missing out on this because the majority of workers at my company and people we deal with at other companies are middle-aged/old men. So when it comes to talking about my boyfriend or other aspects of my personal life, it's always an immediate blunt "do you have a boyfriend? is he Korean? Wow that is GREAT. What does he do? oh he must be HANDSOME. Good for you. Korean men are great right?" And then they get bored of hearing about me and go back to talking about company things. It's like clockwork.<br /><br />It definitely never ventures anywhere near to discussing anything about "strong intimate relationships". That is freakin hilarious. Your older coworkers are awesome.<br /><br />...Unless our CEO means something else when he says "한국 남자 좋지??" in which case my entire life is now really awkward쏘냐https://www.blogger.com/profile/17118364180104149752noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21444271.post-226675165035501422011-06-28T13:33:32.667+09:002011-06-28T13:33:32.667+09:00The thing is, I wouldn't trade it. And if she ...The thing is, I wouldn't trade it. And if she spends enough time with me around the other teachers, she'll figure it out. They set a good example. I don't mind their older sister/aunt meddling antics -- I'm pretty used to that by now. Just now they all ganged up on me and demanded to have dinner with my boyfriend before things go any further, and then really embarrassed me by saying they're not asking any questions, but they're just saying... I should form a *strong* *intimate* relationship with him before marriage. Just to be sure I want *strong* *intimate* relationship with him. Elbow elbow. <br /><br />God. <br /><br />But yeah. It's the Pollyannas of the world I have trouble with, but only one on one. They tend to just turn into wallpaper when the older women are around, though.I'm no Picassohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06516337555349888808noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21444271.post-73325863576261143242011-06-28T13:20:27.920+09:002011-06-28T13:20:27.920+09:00I guess it's tough to be a woman in an office ...I guess it's tough to be a woman in an office full of women as the foreign teacher. I am really lucky that as a man, they almost never try to strike up a conversation, and when they ask about my dating life I just lie and pretend I'm celibate and they're satisfied with that. My social interaction at work pretty much begins with smiles and ends with small talk -- and that's as far as it goes. I lie about my dating life because I think that the idea of a man with a fully-formed libido teaching children makes some people uncomfortable.<br /><br />As a woman among women though, they try to treat you like one of the gang and you have to put up with a lot of silliness and foolish notions -- not to mention awkward conversation. The trade-off is that some of your co-workers are really awesome and are even friends to you. We must take the bad with the good, I suppose.Mr. Spockhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07125299410825437145noreply@blogger.com