Maybe it's because you refer to it as 'putting out'. And because you seem to have a serious fucking attitude problem. You're disgusting. And not sexy. She's probably afraid the sex would be horrible. Try being less gross, judgmental, entitled and desperate. Try evolving your vocabulary past the tenth grade. And your perspective on women, as well. Then maybe she won't expect the sex to also be like in high school, and won't avoid it so eagerly.
Dear whoever found my blog by googling "the appeal of strong women",
Well hello, sailor.